Category: Father’s Day

Father’s Day: Analogies; Parables; and Confusion

1 Samuel 15:34-16:13 1400945145878
Mark 4:26-34

Remember Ruth and Naomi? Ruth’s grandson is Jesse. In Bethlehem Jesse lives with his many, many sons. One day the prophet Samuel – who has spoken gloom and doom to Israel, and Israel has had a LOT of gloom and doom under Saul – comes to town.

The people are not happy to see him. If King Saul knows Samuel is here, the King may level the town to get to Samuel and kill him. But if they turn a prophet of God away, God might level the town for their inhospitality. Still over, maybe the prophet has come to speak gloom and doom and ruin to Bethlehem, personally.

“Do you come in peace?!” They tremble and ask Samuel.

“Yes,” says Samuel. “I’ve come to sacrifice to the Lord. Come join me.”

He isn’t here to tell them to take arms against their king, or here to ruin their city, or to call God’s fury upon them. He’s here to pray and worship God. I imagine the elders are starting to breathe easier. Among them are Jesse, and his sons.

Together the whole group goes and worships God. Samuel looks at the sons and knows God has provided for God’s self a new king from among them. Saul has lost God’s blessing. Israel needs a new ruler.

Eliab looks like a great ruler. He’s tall, strong, muscular. He carries himself like a king. He’s the eldest of Jesse, and therefore, the one the mortals would choose.

— No, says God. I am not looking at the outside of people. I’m looking at their hearts. Not Eliab.–

So in comes Abinadab. He’s the next best choice. The second eldest. If the first can’t take the throne, then it goes to the second son, right?

Nope.

Call in the next son. Sammah. The… third son?

Nope.

One after another, four more sons pass before Jesse. Seven total no’s are said from God.

We went from the very best son, the oldest, the strongest, the tallest — to the middling best sons. And God has said no to all of them. But God had told Samuel one of Jesse’s sons is to be the new king. But God has rejected all of them! Every single one!

I imagine Samuel is pretty confused, “God has said no to these nine sons… Do you have any others?”

Jesse thinks and says, “Well, yeah. There’s the youngest. The kid. He’s tending the sheep.” This youngest is so not important to his family he isn’t even invited to the worship service. He’s tucked away – told kids don’t belong among the adults doing religious things.

“Bring in the child!” says Samuel. “We won’t sit down for our worship feast until the child is here!”

So someone goes and gets the boy. When Samuel sees the boy, God tells him this is the one. So Samuel goes to the least of the brothers, the youngest, the forgotten one and anoints the child. The child is then filled with God’s presence from that day forward. He is David, the shepherd, the musician, and the chosen new king of Israel.

God is often called Father in the Bible. This isn’t because God is male – indeed, we are all made in the image of God, so God is all genders – but rather, because in the old, old society our scripture comes from – the eldest males are in charge.

Samuel orders Jesse. Jesse orders his eldest son. His eldest orders his younger brother, who orders his younger brother… on and on down the line all the way to the little kid David. That is how the world is organized. So, naturally, if everyone is under God, then God is the eldest male — Father of all.

But stories like David’s, or Joseph and his multicolored coat, or even Isaac show God doesn’t think in this eldest-male way. Instead, just as God says to Samuel here, God looks at our hearts. Not our bodies. Not our birth orders. Not what gender or sex we are. It’s a human thing to rank ourselves with gender and age so that ‘Father’ becomes the ruler, ‘Lord’ becomes the norm, and ‘Male’ becomes god-like.

If we were in a matriarchal society, we’d be calling God Mother, Lady, and saying female is god-like. Because the eldest women are in charge in a matriarchy.

We humans are pretty poor at grasping heavenly concepts. But we use what tools we have to explain the divine. We use these things we can see to explain the things we can’t see. Jesus used parables to try to help people see the divine no longer in the terms of male-female, black-white, binaries… but rather another dimension. A third way. The narrow way. The way of yes, and…

Yes, God is Father. And God is Mother.

Yes, God is our eldest. And God is youngest.

Yes, God is Lord. And also servant.

Analogies are “yes, and” ways to help us open our minds. So too are parables. Today we hear three parables of Jesus about God’s reign. In the first, without the farmer knowing the specifics, the seed grows and grows and produces itself. Whether or not you understand photosynthesis; whether or not you’re out there telling the seed to grow; whether or not you’re attending to the seed… plants grow. Just ask your weeds.

God’s reign is ever growing, whether or not we attend to it. Whether or not we understand. Whether or not we want it to – God is ever closer.

Now, Garlic mustard grows around here. And mustard grows around Jesus’ place. Let’s use dandelions for today’s example. They’re much more like the weed Jesus was describing for our local place. Or, if you don’t care about dandelions in your yard – picture ragweed or mares tale or cowpoke.

Whether or not you want these plants – they’re going to show up in your yard and in your fields.

Whether or not you want the reign of God – it’s coming. It’s here.

So Jesus said consider the weeds. The little tiny seeds of dandelions get EVERYWHERE. The wind blows them here and there, they grow anywhere they land – between concrete cracks and inside flower pots. In yards and in fields.

That dandelion is the greatest of all the flowers. Don’t give me that look! It’s one of the first to bloom and all the bees love it. It’s one of the last to bloom and all the bees love it. It’s good to eat for animals and people. It’s easy to grow. It’s pretty. Its fun to blow the seeds. Birds use its fluff for their nests to cradle their babies. That flower is the greatest – over all the roses and orchids and tender plants.

Once again, God isn’t looking on the outside, and at our human expectations. Not Jesse’s eldest, but his youngest. Not the beautiful tender rose but the stalwart, common, weed.

If God is like our father, using this analogy for our Father’s Day, then God is like the father who looks at all his children and sees something beautiful in each of them. There is no child who is forgotten out with the sheep. No child who is considered a nuisance. If God is like a Father, he’s the kind of Father who didn’t care what grade you got on your test; he cared if you were learning. He didn’t care who you dated, so long as they treated you well. He didn’t care where you worked, so long as it made you happy. A father who wants what’s best for our souls.

God as our Father would not be the type of father who rips children from parents; who blasphemies using scripture to justify sin and evil; and who ignores the plight of the least of us.

No. If your father acts like this, and you think fathers ought to act like this, then don’t call god Father.

Call God the name of the role of the one who loves you most.
Our God wants us to use the terms that we most identify with for God. It’s why Jesus uses parables. Why God upturns our expectations.

What should we compare God like?

Who is an earthly someone who protects us, loves us, wants the best for us, created us, provides for us, and encourages us – if that is Father – call God Father. If that is Mother, call God Mother. If that is Grandma, call God Grandma… and so forth. Because our human language will never capture God. God is beyond language.

Analogies are never perfect. They just point towards.

But we have to use something, some words to describe our God… so we use these human terms.

But may we always be like Samuel and listening to God, who is ready to surprise us with new language, shatter our expectations with new hopes, new beginnings, and lead us to blessings through counter-cultural ways.

May we walk by faith and not by sight.

Let us be like the disciples, who didn’t understand everything in the least, but who kept going and following their shepherd.

Let us embrace the “yes, and” ways of describing our God, who is yes our father, and also so much more.

Amen

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Like Father’s Voice

orlando1 Kings 19:1-15a
Galatians 3:23-29

All over the world, in all religions, people seek messages from the Divine to humanity. Where birds fly, how many times a cat licks her paw, meteors and shooting stars; the birth of a boy or girl; the outcome of a war or a sports game. We want to find evidence of God acting in our world and lives.

You know of the Orlando tragedies – of death after death. Because the terrorist attack was at a gay night club, there are Christian pastors saying this was God’s will, God’s punishment, on the men and women for being gay.

We have heard this rhetoric before. Why was New Orleans swamped and destroyed by Hurricane Katrina? Because of Mardi Gras. God chose to punish the sinful city.

Why did 9-11 happen? Because God chose to punish the sinful city of New York.

Name any catastrophe, any murder, any horror and somebody somewhere will be saying this terror was the will of God.

Our scripture, however, reads: “Now there was a great wind, so strong that it was splitting mountains and breaking rocks in pieces before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind; and after the wind an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake; and after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire; and after the fire a sound of sheer silence. When Elijah heard it, he wrapped his face in his mantle and went out and stood at the entrance of the cave. Then there came a voice to him,”

God wasn’t the hurricane and tornado; God wasn’t the earthquake and wildfire. God isn’t violence and harm and hate and hurt. God didn’t murder the priests in Elijah’s day. Didn’t scheme to raise Elijah as a prophet by destroying all the others. No. God, we must insist, is love. God is good. God is the sheer silence, the still small voice, the God who comes to Elijah and gives him food and drink. The God who hears Elijah’s prayers and responds powerfully. It’s God who is present.

Evils happen. Evils – where life is lost senselessly, where heartache and pain seem endless. God isn’t the evil.

God is in the voices and in the silences responding to evil. God is the voices saying, Let me help you. Let me bring you food. Let me bring you water. Let me pray with you. God is in the silences – the family and friends and strangers going to vigils, writing sympathy cards, and being shoulders to cry on.

When Elijah comes to the mountain top, God asks Elijah again and again – why are you HERE. Why HERE? And Elijah tells God – God! Your people have forgotten your ways. They’ve destroyed your places of worship. They’re murdered your priests! Doesn’t God already know this? Wouldn’t God already be wholly aware? Elijah isn’t there telling God some news. God isn’t remote. God is present.

No, Elijah is really saying: God. I’m scared. They want me dead. I’m alone.

And God’s answer is — no, you’re not alone. A peace beyond understanding, a supernatural silence, goes with you wherever you go. This peace is me, God. Yes, you’re scared. But I am with you. Yes, your enemies want you dead. But I prepare a feast before them and anoint you with oil – for the valley filled with the shadows, the threats, of death don’t scare me. I am God. I am with you.

Then God tells Elijah to go right back into the valley. Tells him to go right back to the Israelites who have forsaken, forgotten, God. Go back. And why?!

Because God isn’t a wildfire, earthquake, or tornado. God is a Word, a voice, a silence, a verb, a deed – God is a presense. And God sends Elijah back so that those who don’t know God will come to know God through Elijah.

God isn’t a terrorist, isn’t out to send hurricanes, or level cities. God didn’t murder the men and women of the Pulse Night Club. Because, God isn’t some disciplinarian, writes John. God isn’t a temperamental father waiting to strike you down if you mess up. No – God is our LOVING parent. God is like a LOVING dad; or LOVING mother, grandma, grandma — a caretaker who wants to wipe away tears and be present with us.

If God was a disciplinarian who sent out disasters, terrorists, and death to every person who sinned… who among us would be here today?

Jesus asked the same: who among you is without sin? You may be the first to judge.

Yes, there will be a judgment, a time, when God directs us to face our hearts and minds and deeds. But that is in God’s hands and on God’s time schedule. As Jesus said, not even the angels know when.

What we do know is to call ourselves Christian, we cannot be casting stones. To call ourselves Christian, we cannot be claiming God is punishing this sinner but not that sinner. To call ourselves Christian, we have to obey the Greatest Commandment: to LOVE God, and to LOVE each other.

LOVE, we have been commanded. Not JUDGE. Love.

Because, “There is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or free, there is no longer male and female; for all of you are one in Christ Jesus.” There is no sinner or non-sinner. There are simply children of God, robed in Christ.

Elijah is sent back – to people who want him dead – to spread the message of God.

We are sent from our churches, our homes, our comfort places – to people of all walks of life – to spread the message of God.

The message of acceptance and love.

This Father’s Day there are at least 49 fathers missing children who were murdered last week. There is a father missing a toddler. There is a father missing a daughter. Since Pulse happened, a 125 more shootings in the US have occurred — most 1 on 1 — but 125 dead by guns. All around the world fathers, mothers, grandmothers, grandparents, lovers, siblings, friends, and children are weeping.

We are sent.

We are sent to carry God’s presence into the world. We are sent to love.

We pray to God as Father, as Jesus did. So we often think of God as Father. But if our earthly role model of father has a raging voice as loud as a hurricane, and a temper as hot as wildfire, if he split rocks and threw things and was violent… we should be very careful not to confuse our Heavenly Father with our Earthly one. For our Heavenly Father wasn’t any of these things… but was the tender voice, the guide, the caretaker.

Your earthly caretaker – whomever he or she is – they speak with a voice like God.

You – child of God, heirs to the promise of God’s abiding care and presence – you are an earthly caretaker. It’s your job to be the voice and be the presence of God – for many won’t make the trip to the mountain, or church, or Bible. So it’s your job to live the Christian message. Your job to be the Christian message. Your job to be love when there is so much hate.

May your presence, love, and voice be a counter to the hate the world likes to think Christians spew. Amen.